In the past two weeks since we've made the big and important decision about buying our own apartment, I've heard so many shitty opinions on my life, my spending decisions, my budget, so much nagging, making our purchase about themselves and not us, second guessing every single decision and outright hatred pointed in our direction for being able to do it without taking a 30+ years bank loan, it made me start to deeply reconsider the amount of heart, effort and care I've been putting on certain friendships and family relationships.
Overall I'm beginning to think we just shouldn't have told anyone. People are fucking disgusting and I'm so exhausted.
