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15.05.202500:43
Amused Mastery
The best argument style is Amused Mastery. Amused mastery can be described as detached domination. Or the art of not taking other people too seriously.
It’s the weaponization of wit. It’s an air of subtle superiority. It’s elegant dismissal. It’s unshakable composure. It’s Sean Connery on Barbara Walters.
Amused masters don’t see conflict as war, they see it as a playful game. Rather than battling every point they sidestep weak arguments or mock them gently.
They are never emotionally reactive. Responses are sharp, clever, humorous, but never mean. They guide the conversation in their direction of choice making others conform to their lead.
Some simple tips to be a more Masterful communicator:
Master your Frame: Stay Grounded. Never get pulled into someone else’s emotional storm. Learn how to hold your perspective in spite of strong resistance. Never defend yourself or your actions, never validate accusations. Be a rock.
Speak Slowly and Strongly: “Slow is smooth, smooth is fast, speed kills.” You are not anxious and you have nothing to prove. You do not need to rush. Take a deep breath. Take your time. Silence is a weapon. Pauses create tension and imply dominance. Cut filler words. Speak with precision.
Build Internal Authority: You never have to fluster when you actually know your stuff. Know your arguments and positions deeply. Read widely, discuss often. Only strongly defend positions you truly believe in. Don’t defend what you have no knowledge of, don’t pretend to know what you do not know.
Don’t Overinvest: You don’t need to be right, it’s just fun to be right. Be willing to walk away from dumb conversations and ignore dumb questions. Shrug off critiques with a smile, maybe even affirm them.
Don’t take people too seriously: Just because someone is having a passionate response it doesn’t mean this is serious. Emotions do not validate an argument. Most people don’t know what they are saying. They don’t know what they believe or why. One of the worst things you can do is take them too seriously (especially women). When you respond strongly to emotion you validate the emotion.
Tastefully Tease: Tasteful teasing is your scalpel, sharp enough to cut but delicate enough to not draw blood. Done right it lightens the mood. Sharing a chuckle is a great way to reduce tension and build connection. Done wrong it comes off as cruel, reactive, or try hard. To do it correctly takes practice. Some general rules: punch up and never down, tease the behavior not the person, use contrast or exaggeration, keep it to one tease at a time, let them get a tease of their own in sometimes.
Amused Mastery is essentially: I don’t need to dominate you. Im already in control. Let’s have fun with it.
The best argument style is Amused Mastery. Amused mastery can be described as detached domination. Or the art of not taking other people too seriously.
It’s the weaponization of wit. It’s an air of subtle superiority. It’s elegant dismissal. It’s unshakable composure. It’s Sean Connery on Barbara Walters.
Amused masters don’t see conflict as war, they see it as a playful game. Rather than battling every point they sidestep weak arguments or mock them gently.
They are never emotionally reactive. Responses are sharp, clever, humorous, but never mean. They guide the conversation in their direction of choice making others conform to their lead.
Some simple tips to be a more Masterful communicator:
Master your Frame: Stay Grounded. Never get pulled into someone else’s emotional storm. Learn how to hold your perspective in spite of strong resistance. Never defend yourself or your actions, never validate accusations. Be a rock.
Speak Slowly and Strongly: “Slow is smooth, smooth is fast, speed kills.” You are not anxious and you have nothing to prove. You do not need to rush. Take a deep breath. Take your time. Silence is a weapon. Pauses create tension and imply dominance. Cut filler words. Speak with precision.
Build Internal Authority: You never have to fluster when you actually know your stuff. Know your arguments and positions deeply. Read widely, discuss often. Only strongly defend positions you truly believe in. Don’t defend what you have no knowledge of, don’t pretend to know what you do not know.
Don’t Overinvest: You don’t need to be right, it’s just fun to be right. Be willing to walk away from dumb conversations and ignore dumb questions. Shrug off critiques with a smile, maybe even affirm them.
Don’t take people too seriously: Just because someone is having a passionate response it doesn’t mean this is serious. Emotions do not validate an argument. Most people don’t know what they are saying. They don’t know what they believe or why. One of the worst things you can do is take them too seriously (especially women). When you respond strongly to emotion you validate the emotion.
Tastefully Tease: Tasteful teasing is your scalpel, sharp enough to cut but delicate enough to not draw blood. Done right it lightens the mood. Sharing a chuckle is a great way to reduce tension and build connection. Done wrong it comes off as cruel, reactive, or try hard. To do it correctly takes practice. Some general rules: punch up and never down, tease the behavior not the person, use contrast or exaggeration, keep it to one tease at a time, let them get a tease of their own in sometimes.
Amused Mastery is essentially: I don’t need to dominate you. Im already in control. Let’s have fun with it.
12.05.202521:37
“Some me lose all mind and become soul, insane.
Some lose all soul and become mind, intellectual.
Some lose both and become accepted.”
Some lose all soul and become mind, intellectual.
Some lose both and become accepted.”
07.05.202501:57
“Trust thyself: every heart vibrates to that iron string. Accept the place the divine providence has found for you, the society of your contemporaries, the connection of events. Great men have always done so, and confided themselves childlike to the genius of their age, betraying their perception that the absolutely trustworthy was seated at their heart, working through their hands, predominating in all their being. And we are now men, and must accept in the highest mind the same transcendent destiny; and not minors and invalids in a protected corner, not cowards fleeing before a revolution, but guides, redeemers, and benefactors, obeying the Almighty effort, and advancing on Chaos and the Dark.”
05.05.202517:09
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01.05.202522:03
You don’t “find meaning” you construct it. You convince yourself of what games are worth playing
Meaning isn’t hidden somewhere out in the world waiting to be discovered like a buried treasure
It’s not something the universe doles out. It’s something you build.
You assign value to things, you decide what matters, and in doing so you create your own guiding light
All of life is a series of games. Business, relationships, fitness, art, war, faith. Each has its own rules, rewards, and sacrifices
But none are inherently meaningful. The value of each is determined by the weight you give it.
A man becomes great not by playing a meaningful game, but by pouring so much of himself into the game that it becomes meaningful.
Meaning is a side effect of commitment, not a prerequisite
Meaning isn’t hidden somewhere out in the world waiting to be discovered like a buried treasure
It’s not something the universe doles out. It’s something you build.
You assign value to things, you decide what matters, and in doing so you create your own guiding light
All of life is a series of games. Business, relationships, fitness, art, war, faith. Each has its own rules, rewards, and sacrifices
But none are inherently meaningful. The value of each is determined by the weight you give it.
A man becomes great not by playing a meaningful game, but by pouring so much of himself into the game that it becomes meaningful.
Meaning is a side effect of commitment, not a prerequisite
30.04.202521:49
I’ve been fascinated by gold recently.
Some things are rare. Some things are beautiful. Some things are eternal. Gold is all three and then some.
Gold did not naturally form on earth. Every atom of gold on Earth was forged in the heart of an ancient dying star. Gold is quite literally cosmic stardust. A relic from the beginning.
It’s one of the least reactive elements in existence. It doesn’t rust. It doesnt decay. It defies time.
Things that would normally destroy everything else like oxygen, water, acid, have virtually no effect on pure gold. A gold coin buried for 5000 years can be dug up looking almost exactly the same.
Gold can bend without breaking. A single ounce of gold can be hammered thin enough to cover an entire football field. A single gram can be stretched into a wire almost 2000m long. All the Gold ever mined in human history could fit inside three olympic sized swimming pools.
Besides its durability and malleability there are other amazing qualities such as its conductivity and reflectivity. Gold is one of the best conductors of electricity, second only to silver. It also reflects both infrared and visible light better than almost any other material. It carries energy and light, both literally and symbolically.
What is really mysterious about it is how humans are intrinsically drawn to it. Civilizations separated by oceans and centuries, from the Temples of Greece to the altars of the Aztecs, all independently valued it and considered it sacred. It was not spread by treaty or fad, it was instinctive, and maybe even genetic.
Gold doesnt just shine. It speaks to something buried deep within us. It symbolizes permanence in a world that crumples.
Empires collapse. Currencies die. Trends come and go. But gold remains. Untouched. Untarnished.
Some things are rare. Some things are beautiful. Some things are eternal. Gold is all three and then some.
Gold did not naturally form on earth. Every atom of gold on Earth was forged in the heart of an ancient dying star. Gold is quite literally cosmic stardust. A relic from the beginning.
It’s one of the least reactive elements in existence. It doesn’t rust. It doesnt decay. It defies time.
Things that would normally destroy everything else like oxygen, water, acid, have virtually no effect on pure gold. A gold coin buried for 5000 years can be dug up looking almost exactly the same.
Gold can bend without breaking. A single ounce of gold can be hammered thin enough to cover an entire football field. A single gram can be stretched into a wire almost 2000m long. All the Gold ever mined in human history could fit inside three olympic sized swimming pools.
Besides its durability and malleability there are other amazing qualities such as its conductivity and reflectivity. Gold is one of the best conductors of electricity, second only to silver. It also reflects both infrared and visible light better than almost any other material. It carries energy and light, both literally and symbolically.
What is really mysterious about it is how humans are intrinsically drawn to it. Civilizations separated by oceans and centuries, from the Temples of Greece to the altars of the Aztecs, all independently valued it and considered it sacred. It was not spread by treaty or fad, it was instinctive, and maybe even genetic.
Gold doesnt just shine. It speaks to something buried deep within us. It symbolizes permanence in a world that crumples.
Empires collapse. Currencies die. Trends come and go. But gold remains. Untouched. Untarnished.
30.04.202501:37
27.04.202515:41
There is an eternal tension between the heroic and domestic life. They used to be one and the same, now they have grown far apart.
In the premodern age of hardship, building a home, securing a family, farming land, had a level of heroism to it. They were acts of survival against a brutal uncertain world.
Domesticity itself was heroism. A man wasn’t a “suburban dad” or a “wandering ronin”, he was both. He was Farmer and Fighter. He was Father and Adventurer. He was Builder and Destroyer.
Domesticity itself was an act of heroism, and adventure was necessary to secure domesticity.
Building a home, raising children, tilling land, defending a village, were not "safe" choices. The home was a frontier that required courage, strength, cunning, resilience. It was a life at odds with man and nature. Starvation, disease, war, wild animals…. Disaster was always near. Building a home was walking through hell, it was standing against death
But in the padded comfort and abundance of the modern world, where survival is easy, heroism shifts elsewhere. It’s not found in the cookie cutter home buried within the suburban sprawl. It’s found in adventure, self-mastery, danger, art, and risk.
Deprived of true hardship the heroic spirit mutates. When life demands nothing, men turn to women, war, wealth, and wounds to remember who they are. You see it in the playboy, the business builder, the trader, the traveler, the gambler, the political dissident, the guy who finds ways to bleed for fun.
Heroism in today’s world is rebellion, creation, seduction, risk, and the pursuit of pain for its own sake. It’s something that has to be searched for or maybe even stolen.
Dont get me wrong, raising children can still be heroic, if done consciously and courageously. But most people aren’t raising kids like warriors or sages. They’re raising them like bugmen. Feeding them slop, wrapping them in plastic, housing them in beige and gray decorated boxes, filling their mind with cowardly opinions, leading them towards mediocrity and obedience.
The “wife guy” is not a symbol of love, hes a symbol of spiritual decline. It’s not that love and fatherhood are weak. It’s that they’ve become automatic, trivialized, and have been drained of risk and sacredness. And without struggle, beauty, danger, and honor, life becomes a kind of living death.
Thats why the image of the wandering warrior, the rogue artist, the adventurer, feels like the last real frontier of the masculine spirit today.
In a world where everything is safe, danger is sacred. The men of the past built cages around us. The men of our time will break free and venture back into the wild. Its the only way to remain human
In the premodern age of hardship, building a home, securing a family, farming land, had a level of heroism to it. They were acts of survival against a brutal uncertain world.
Domesticity itself was heroism. A man wasn’t a “suburban dad” or a “wandering ronin”, he was both. He was Farmer and Fighter. He was Father and Adventurer. He was Builder and Destroyer.
Domesticity itself was an act of heroism, and adventure was necessary to secure domesticity.
Building a home, raising children, tilling land, defending a village, were not "safe" choices. The home was a frontier that required courage, strength, cunning, resilience. It was a life at odds with man and nature. Starvation, disease, war, wild animals…. Disaster was always near. Building a home was walking through hell, it was standing against death
But in the padded comfort and abundance of the modern world, where survival is easy, heroism shifts elsewhere. It’s not found in the cookie cutter home buried within the suburban sprawl. It’s found in adventure, self-mastery, danger, art, and risk.
Deprived of true hardship the heroic spirit mutates. When life demands nothing, men turn to women, war, wealth, and wounds to remember who they are. You see it in the playboy, the business builder, the trader, the traveler, the gambler, the political dissident, the guy who finds ways to bleed for fun.
Heroism in today’s world is rebellion, creation, seduction, risk, and the pursuit of pain for its own sake. It’s something that has to be searched for or maybe even stolen.
Dont get me wrong, raising children can still be heroic, if done consciously and courageously. But most people aren’t raising kids like warriors or sages. They’re raising them like bugmen. Feeding them slop, wrapping them in plastic, housing them in beige and gray decorated boxes, filling their mind with cowardly opinions, leading them towards mediocrity and obedience.
The “wife guy” is not a symbol of love, hes a symbol of spiritual decline. It’s not that love and fatherhood are weak. It’s that they’ve become automatic, trivialized, and have been drained of risk and sacredness. And without struggle, beauty, danger, and honor, life becomes a kind of living death.
Thats why the image of the wandering warrior, the rogue artist, the adventurer, feels like the last real frontier of the masculine spirit today.
In a world where everything is safe, danger is sacred. The men of the past built cages around us. The men of our time will break free and venture back into the wild. Its the only way to remain human
24.04.202523:48
Abandon one’s self to destiny
23.04.202520:24
You can get far in life just by being extremely curious
Passionate inquisition will lead you down paths most people never take & are completely unaware of
You can be the most well rounded and experienced person you know just by being curious
“Interested people live Interesting lives”
“If you want to be an interesting person you have to be an interested person”
But we have to know difference between surface level inquisition and Deep Inquisition
Ex
Surface level guy becomes aware, finds expert, asks him googable questions, never experiences
Deep Inquisition guy becomes aware, finds own sources, jumps in feet first, gets experience, grows, then asks valid questions.
Passionate inquisition will lead you down paths most people never take & are completely unaware of
You can be the most well rounded and experienced person you know just by being curious
“Interested people live Interesting lives”
“If you want to be an interesting person you have to be an interested person”
But we have to know difference between surface level inquisition and Deep Inquisition
Ex
Surface level guy becomes aware, finds expert, asks him googable questions, never experiences
Deep Inquisition guy becomes aware, finds own sources, jumps in feet first, gets experience, grows, then asks valid questions.
23.04.202517:35
This Had to be Addressed
16.04.202516:42
15.04.202522:21
I feel like everyone is searching for something meaningful to stake their life on but we just can’t seem to find it in this age
There are no clear kings to follow. No battles worthy of bleeding for. No clean hierarchies. No obvious enemies
The system is gray and opaque. The leaders are uninspiring and often working against you. The enemy is everywhere and no where at the same time.
So everyone just sits in indecision. Strong enough to feel rage, but not focused enough to aim it at a clear target.
This is the crux of our Time
But this doesn’t mean the hero stops existing. It just means he has to create his own battlefields.
You don’t need a man to follow, you need a code to obey.
A code that if you follow will inevitably bring you,strength, wealth, wisdom, experience, brotherhood, family, and whatever else you desire in this life.
There are no clear kings to follow. No battles worthy of bleeding for. No clean hierarchies. No obvious enemies
The system is gray and opaque. The leaders are uninspiring and often working against you. The enemy is everywhere and no where at the same time.
So everyone just sits in indecision. Strong enough to feel rage, but not focused enough to aim it at a clear target.
This is the crux of our Time
But this doesn’t mean the hero stops existing. It just means he has to create his own battlefields.
You don’t need a man to follow, you need a code to obey.
A code that if you follow will inevitably bring you,strength, wealth, wisdom, experience, brotherhood, family, and whatever else you desire in this life.
15.04.202522:05
Mishima didn’t fear death. He feared a soft life and a quiet rot.
This doesn’t mean you too have to die with a sword plunged into your stomach
But you have to die with your soul tested and your body scarred.
This doesn’t mean you too have to die with a sword plunged into your stomach
But you have to die with your soul tested and your body scarred.
11.04.202523:54
ChatGPT is more or less my personal assistant that knows the most about me. I have curated its memories to know me in depth so it always has the best responses on life questions or anything pertaining directly to me. I cannot explain to you how much better the model is when it knows you. You will have a holy shit moment with the right prompt.
Grok is great as well but its memory is thread limited, not global. However it's deep research function is great and seems to be faster than other platforms. I use it more like an indepth replacement for what I used to do with Google.
Perplexity is like a personal research assistant. I pay for Pro so I have access to multiple models: GPT4-o, Sonnet 3.7, Gemini, DeepSeek etc...imo it is the best at summarzing YouTube videos, articles and anything else you want a quick glance at to see if it is worth the time investment of diving deeper. I also like it that places sources directly in-line. You can tailor your search queries to be simply handled by the model you choose or give it access to the web, academic sources, and social media sources.
Claude + Cursor for any tech related questions or work but that's probably not relevant for most people.
If you want to locally host your own, use whatever Llama model your computer can handle.
Grok is great as well but its memory is thread limited, not global. However it's deep research function is great and seems to be faster than other platforms. I use it more like an indepth replacement for what I used to do with Google.
Perplexity is like a personal research assistant. I pay for Pro so I have access to multiple models: GPT4-o, Sonnet 3.7, Gemini, DeepSeek etc...imo it is the best at summarzing YouTube videos, articles and anything else you want a quick glance at to see if it is worth the time investment of diving deeper. I also like it that places sources directly in-line. You can tailor your search queries to be simply handled by the model you choose or give it access to the web, academic sources, and social media sources.
Claude + Cursor for any tech related questions or work but that's probably not relevant for most people.
If you want to locally host your own, use whatever Llama model your computer can handle.
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01.05.202522:03
You don’t “find meaning” you construct it. You convince yourself of what games are worth playing
Meaning isn’t hidden somewhere out in the world waiting to be discovered like a buried treasure
It’s not something the universe doles out. It’s something you build.
You assign value to things, you decide what matters, and in doing so you create your own guiding light
All of life is a series of games. Business, relationships, fitness, art, war, faith. Each has its own rules, rewards, and sacrifices
But none are inherently meaningful. The value of each is determined by the weight you give it.
A man becomes great not by playing a meaningful game, but by pouring so much of himself into the game that it becomes meaningful.
Meaning is a side effect of commitment, not a prerequisite
Meaning isn’t hidden somewhere out in the world waiting to be discovered like a buried treasure
It’s not something the universe doles out. It’s something you build.
You assign value to things, you decide what matters, and in doing so you create your own guiding light
All of life is a series of games. Business, relationships, fitness, art, war, faith. Each has its own rules, rewards, and sacrifices
But none are inherently meaningful. The value of each is determined by the weight you give it.
A man becomes great not by playing a meaningful game, but by pouring so much of himself into the game that it becomes meaningful.
Meaning is a side effect of commitment, not a prerequisite
23.04.202520:24
You can get far in life just by being extremely curious
Passionate inquisition will lead you down paths most people never take & are completely unaware of
You can be the most well rounded and experienced person you know just by being curious
“Interested people live Interesting lives”
“If you want to be an interesting person you have to be an interested person”
But we have to know difference between surface level inquisition and Deep Inquisition
Ex
Surface level guy becomes aware, finds expert, asks him googable questions, never experiences
Deep Inquisition guy becomes aware, finds own sources, jumps in feet first, gets experience, grows, then asks valid questions.
Passionate inquisition will lead you down paths most people never take & are completely unaware of
You can be the most well rounded and experienced person you know just by being curious
“Interested people live Interesting lives”
“If you want to be an interesting person you have to be an interested person”
But we have to know difference between surface level inquisition and Deep Inquisition
Ex
Surface level guy becomes aware, finds expert, asks him googable questions, never experiences
Deep Inquisition guy becomes aware, finds own sources, jumps in feet first, gets experience, grows, then asks valid questions.
30.04.202501:37
07.05.202501:57
“Trust thyself: every heart vibrates to that iron string. Accept the place the divine providence has found for you, the society of your contemporaries, the connection of events. Great men have always done so, and confided themselves childlike to the genius of their age, betraying their perception that the absolutely trustworthy was seated at their heart, working through their hands, predominating in all their being. And we are now men, and must accept in the highest mind the same transcendent destiny; and not minors and invalids in a protected corner, not cowards fleeing before a revolution, but guides, redeemers, and benefactors, obeying the Almighty effort, and advancing on Chaos and the Dark.”
23.04.202517:35
This Had to be Addressed
24.04.202523:48
Abandon one’s self to destiny
Көбүрөөк функцияларды ачуу үчүн кириңиз.