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22.12.202422:31
If you are looking to be serious with a woman, knowing if she has had plastic surgery or not is very important. Drs do a good job at covering up bad genetics. One way to sus this out is to look at her female relatives like mom or sisters. Don’t get tricked into marrying an uggo.
09.12.202400:01
Take this from me. When you are young, part of getting your routine down is not getting fat. I was up to 280 pounds at my heaviest. It is very hard to get back into shape when you are in your 40’s. I have always been a gym guy and lifted. But never took food seriously. Get serious about it early in life and KEEP A LOW BODY FAT COMPOSITION. I cannot stress it enough.
Your health is most important.
Also aesthetically, you look better. Cloths just look better on thinner people. I hear no one talk about that. I have watched hundreds of men’s style videos about everything from street wear to old money style.
My personal style is basically preppy. But problem is it never looks good on me. Nothing will till I lose more weight.
Aesthetics are important especially when looking for a mate. Also no one takes fat people seriously. They only get made fun of. Everyone knows it but it’s not said in public.
Your health is most important.
Also aesthetically, you look better. Cloths just look better on thinner people. I hear no one talk about that. I have watched hundreds of men’s style videos about everything from street wear to old money style.
My personal style is basically preppy. But problem is it never looks good on me. Nothing will till I lose more weight.
Aesthetics are important especially when looking for a mate. Also no one takes fat people seriously. They only get made fun of. Everyone knows it but it’s not said in public.
03.12.202401:41
If you are a young man just coming out of high school or college, start a business instead of being a wage cuck. You bust your ass in your 20’s and you’ll be set. Don’t make the mistake I made. Be your own boss. Don’t be subjected to corporate America.
21.11.202400:21
I wanted to write about how in reality, no one really cares about you as a man. We all have problems to deal with, money to make, stress, mental issues etc. We get anxious, mad, sad, stressed, depressed, hyper sexual, tired, worn out almost to the point of giving up and some guys to actually give it all up which I do not agree with. We deal with all this and no real way to release all of these feelings and thoughts. We have no one to call because no one cares.
They care to a point I guess and that point is when your problems become theirs and that is what they are avoiding. Only kids, women and animals are loved unconditionally. Not men, love for a man is conditional. We have to check many boxes in order to get real love from someone and if those boxes start to get checked less and less often, the love disappears.
I am not trying to blackpill you with this, I am trying to free your mind. When you go through life with the knowledge that no one really cares, it frees you, it lifts a load off of your shoulders. This load is the weight of your thoughts constantly buzzing around about the worry list you have. It frees you to see what is really important to you, it lets you focus your energy in the right direction, it shows you who in your life put good energy into you thus you know who to give good energy back to.
Giving your energy to things that don’t make you happy kills your spirit and make a man that is dead inside with a sick mind and body.
When we have no one to talk to, we stuff things down inside and they can bubble up at times. When we have a sick mind and body, we let more things get to us, we let stuff live in our heads, we don’t let things go, we lose our perspective which leads to more bad decision making, we can’t recognize the good people worth our good energy.
Self reflection and asking questions can help you keep the proper perspective on things and where to channel that energy.
Be free Gentleman.
-Joe.
They care to a point I guess and that point is when your problems become theirs and that is what they are avoiding. Only kids, women and animals are loved unconditionally. Not men, love for a man is conditional. We have to check many boxes in order to get real love from someone and if those boxes start to get checked less and less often, the love disappears.
I am not trying to blackpill you with this, I am trying to free your mind. When you go through life with the knowledge that no one really cares, it frees you, it lifts a load off of your shoulders. This load is the weight of your thoughts constantly buzzing around about the worry list you have. It frees you to see what is really important to you, it lets you focus your energy in the right direction, it shows you who in your life put good energy into you thus you know who to give good energy back to.
Giving your energy to things that don’t make you happy kills your spirit and make a man that is dead inside with a sick mind and body.
When we have no one to talk to, we stuff things down inside and they can bubble up at times. When we have a sick mind and body, we let more things get to us, we let stuff live in our heads, we don’t let things go, we lose our perspective which leads to more bad decision making, we can’t recognize the good people worth our good energy.
Self reflection and asking questions can help you keep the proper perspective on things and where to channel that energy.
Be free Gentleman.
-Joe.
09.11.202402:03
Continued,
Conservative parents are the best option of course. Do her parents have a nice, clean house that is well maintained? Is her dad a masculine man and her mom a feminine lady? Is her mom a stay at home mom? Does her dad run the house? Are her parents responsible with money and have a savings and a retirement, life Insurance et al. Are her parents out of shape or over weight or obese? Are they pot heads? Do they take care of their heath? Do her parents have any mental disorders? Do her parents love and respect each other? Do they fight?
I know a lot of this sounds so trivial but based on my experience, it is important to consider all of this. Now you can choose what is highest priority given your situation. Don't let any one single thing stop you, purity spiraling wont work. I don't think you will get all the good points and none of the bad points. There are things that you are going to have to compromise on as she will have to compromise things about you. Remember you are not perfect either. The order of importance is totally up to you on this. It's your life.
-Joe
Conservative parents are the best option of course. Do her parents have a nice, clean house that is well maintained? Is her dad a masculine man and her mom a feminine lady? Is her mom a stay at home mom? Does her dad run the house? Are her parents responsible with money and have a savings and a retirement, life Insurance et al. Are her parents out of shape or over weight or obese? Are they pot heads? Do they take care of their heath? Do her parents have any mental disorders? Do her parents love and respect each other? Do they fight?
I know a lot of this sounds so trivial but based on my experience, it is important to consider all of this. Now you can choose what is highest priority given your situation. Don't let any one single thing stop you, purity spiraling wont work. I don't think you will get all the good points and none of the bad points. There are things that you are going to have to compromise on as she will have to compromise things about you. Remember you are not perfect either. The order of importance is totally up to you on this. It's your life.
-Joe
09.11.202402:03
Vetting a woman for marriage.
I wanted my first post to be about vetting a woman for marriage. There are plenty of women out there that are good for pumping and dumping especially in this era of feminism. These over sexualized hoes who think they are the main character love attention and give away the goods quite easily. These girls are not marriage material and will be part of the cat lady club when they hit their mid 30’s.
I am going to base this off of what I have experienced as a man who has been married for almost 20 years, what I have seen with my peers and their marriages, dealing with In Laws etc. I have also kept up with the dating sphere and I can tell you I feel for you young men out there. My advice will be mostly for young men in their 20’s or 30’s looking for a wife. I know dating is hard and this advice is by no means set in stone.
Things to consider:
Her looks, weight and grooming. This is going to be the very first thing you have to consider. Obviously is she attractive? Every man has a different "type", so does she meet your requirement in the looks department? Is she overweight? I know that a little extra isn't a bad thing, but any female that is overweight or obese shouldn't be considered. She should care about her weight and actively watch it and keep a good diet to prevent future health problems. Grooming? Does she look like she takes care of her hair, nails and teeth, does she put on too much makeup, does she dress like a slob, or does she show she has a little class. Remember, class doesn't cost money. Example does she where very revealing cloths and athleisure wear out in public? That's not classy and I surely don't want my Wife or Daughters doing that. Now we don't want a high maintenance lady. There is a difference between a woman who takes care of herself and a high maintenance woman who will be insufferable.
Another thing to consider is how does she carry herself. Is she polite, does she have a Sailors Mouth, is she loud or soft spoken? Does she have good self confidence? Is she argumentative? That is a big turn off.
Is she good with money? Does she have money discipline and can put off wants to a later date? Does she save money on her own? Does she want to combine finances when married? Does she communicate about money and understand it?
Having someone with similar politics is probably preferable I would say and considering the sphere I really don't need to expand too much on that. I would say when it comes to politics, a republican/conservative type would be best. According to the demographics of the 2024 election, 52% of White women voted Trump so that's good odds for finding a wife.
Single moms. Pass. No need to explain. Automatic pass.
Social media. Does she post lots of pictures of herself on social media? This is a red flag but also what kind of pictures does she post? Are they provocative or just day to day "things I'm doing" post? Of course you will be following her so you can get a taste of her stories. Girls who post a lot of selfies are attention seeking. Just know there will be dudes in her DMs. and those dudes want sex. Question is how does she respond to DMs or does she even have DMs enabled.
Does she have a mental disorder? Lots of females mask this from men when they first date. If she is on anti-depressants, that is a red flag. Is she seeing a therapist? Red flag. Liberal women also will have a higher rate of mental instability and conservatives women are generally happier and have less of a chance of mental instability.
Now on to her parents. Yes, you must vet her parents too. The biggest thing to look for is if they together or divorced? This will play a role yes, but how? Some women are smart enough to know the consequences of a broken home, learn from that, marry with that in mind and not make that mistake. But evidently, single parent homes also lead females to being hoes and single moms as well. So if her parents are still together and treat their kids well, that is a massive white pill.
Continued below
I wanted my first post to be about vetting a woman for marriage. There are plenty of women out there that are good for pumping and dumping especially in this era of feminism. These over sexualized hoes who think they are the main character love attention and give away the goods quite easily. These girls are not marriage material and will be part of the cat lady club when they hit their mid 30’s.
I am going to base this off of what I have experienced as a man who has been married for almost 20 years, what I have seen with my peers and their marriages, dealing with In Laws etc. I have also kept up with the dating sphere and I can tell you I feel for you young men out there. My advice will be mostly for young men in their 20’s or 30’s looking for a wife. I know dating is hard and this advice is by no means set in stone.
Things to consider:
Her looks, weight and grooming. This is going to be the very first thing you have to consider. Obviously is she attractive? Every man has a different "type", so does she meet your requirement in the looks department? Is she overweight? I know that a little extra isn't a bad thing, but any female that is overweight or obese shouldn't be considered. She should care about her weight and actively watch it and keep a good diet to prevent future health problems. Grooming? Does she look like she takes care of her hair, nails and teeth, does she put on too much makeup, does she dress like a slob, or does she show she has a little class. Remember, class doesn't cost money. Example does she where very revealing cloths and athleisure wear out in public? That's not classy and I surely don't want my Wife or Daughters doing that. Now we don't want a high maintenance lady. There is a difference between a woman who takes care of herself and a high maintenance woman who will be insufferable.
Another thing to consider is how does she carry herself. Is she polite, does she have a Sailors Mouth, is she loud or soft spoken? Does she have good self confidence? Is she argumentative? That is a big turn off.
Is she good with money? Does she have money discipline and can put off wants to a later date? Does she save money on her own? Does she want to combine finances when married? Does she communicate about money and understand it?
Having someone with similar politics is probably preferable I would say and considering the sphere I really don't need to expand too much on that. I would say when it comes to politics, a republican/conservative type would be best. According to the demographics of the 2024 election, 52% of White women voted Trump so that's good odds for finding a wife.
Single moms. Pass. No need to explain. Automatic pass.
Social media. Does she post lots of pictures of herself on social media? This is a red flag but also what kind of pictures does she post? Are they provocative or just day to day "things I'm doing" post? Of course you will be following her so you can get a taste of her stories. Girls who post a lot of selfies are attention seeking. Just know there will be dudes in her DMs. and those dudes want sex. Question is how does she respond to DMs or does she even have DMs enabled.
Does she have a mental disorder? Lots of females mask this from men when they first date. If she is on anti-depressants, that is a red flag. Is she seeing a therapist? Red flag. Liberal women also will have a higher rate of mental instability and conservatives women are generally happier and have less of a chance of mental instability.
Now on to her parents. Yes, you must vet her parents too. The biggest thing to look for is if they together or divorced? This will play a role yes, but how? Some women are smart enough to know the consequences of a broken home, learn from that, marry with that in mind and not make that mistake. But evidently, single parent homes also lead females to being hoes and single moms as well. So if her parents are still together and treat their kids well, that is a massive white pill.
Continued below
09.11.202402:03
Vetting for marriage. https://t.me/Class_Of_Men/8
05.11.202423:30
First post here.
I started this channel so I can share my advice and opinons on modernity to young men and to have a place for men to help men by giving and getting advice from one another on issues normally we as men have to put aside or just deal without any help. I know young men are having a hard time out there and I can use my life experience, along with other to help guide each other through life. I will post opinon pieces once a week on topics either I have some thing to say about or some things in the media.
I started this channel so I can share my advice and opinons on modernity to young men and to have a place for men to help men by giving and getting advice from one another on issues normally we as men have to put aside or just deal without any help. I know young men are having a hard time out there and I can use my life experience, along with other to help guide each other through life. I will post opinon pieces once a week on topics either I have some thing to say about or some things in the media.
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