A lot of single men think that there is something they can improve about themselves that will make them more attractive to women.
As if they are not being scrutinized for some immutable characteristics, like their height, personality, or just the look on their face.
Over the years, I have tested out this hypothesis through experience and observation.
Making money doesn't help. Losing weight doesn't help. Trying to change who you are doesn't help.
While you are relentlessly trying to fix your perceived defects there are women you find attractive sleeping with unavailable men, broke men, criminals, and negroes at the bars downtown.
Now because there are some men who haven't experienced this, does not give them license to attack men who have.
If this is not a problem for any particular man, what compels him to attack other men over something they know nothing about? They will never understand what it is like to view the world through things women care about so they attack over things that other men care about.
But a man can have all of the qualities that men respect in other men: honesty, loyalty, courage, strength, perseverance, resourcefulness, and intelligence but still be judged wanting by women over something very superficial and nonsensical.
Just because one man has a woman does not mean he is a better man. It only means that he has been judged sufficient on some superficial feminine bullshit.